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My eyes were practically falling out of my head. The darkened rooms were filled to the brim with guys in jockstraps that were clearly never purchased for any sporting reasons.
NYC GAY SEX PARTY SERIES
Perhaps, ever on the cutting-edge of everything, gay New Yorkers have grown tired of one-on-one exploits and want to live out their fantasies of multiple-partner play that they’ve been watching in porn since they were 16 years old.Īll I know is that when I re-launched my Slutty Underwear Party series with Bobby LaSalle and Shameless on the third Thursday of every month, we couldn’t keep the boys away. What’s going on? Who knows! Perhaps it’s the existence of PREP and the increased safety of sex. We gay New Yorkers are feeling our oats, and very interested in feeling up the oats of our fellow gay men. Just look at the sudden explosion of private-label, invite-only “XXX” events, whether in brownstones in Brooklyn, penthouses in midtown or in your friends’ two-bedroom apartments when their roommates are out in LA for the week. It appears that gay New Yorkers are embracing a new sexual revolution. Conversely, I’ve seen that when the snow starts falling, gay men will fly together into unions and forge relationships to keep each other warm through the wintry months.Įxcept, interestingly, that does not seem to be happening this time around.
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History (or at least my Facebook newsfeed) tells me that when the weather grows warmer, many of NYC’s gay relationships hit the rocks as we exchange our sweaters and jackets for torn-up tank tops and barely-there bathing suits.